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English speaking countries
Date: Centuries-old
Notes: Folk Sayings, Famous Quotes or Proverbs on the Family
     
     
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      o As you sow, so shall you reap.
      o The apple doesn't fall far from the tree (Meaning: Like father, like son).
     
     
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      o Be it ever so humble there's no place like home.
      o The best of friends must part.
      o The best things in life are free.
      o Better be quarreling than lonesome.
      o Better fifty enemies outside the house than one within.
      o Better one house spoiled than two.
      o Birth is much, but breeding is more.
      o Blood is thicker than water (Meaning: familial ties are stronger than any other kind.).
      o Born with a silver spoon in his/her mouth (Meaning: born in a rich family).
      o Boys will be boys (Meaning: boys are traditionally expected to misbehave, while girls are not.).
      o A brother may not be a friend, but a friend will always be a brother.
     
     
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      o Charity begins at home.
      o The child is father to the man (Meaning: What is true of a child will still be true when it grows up; or, early experiences shape future character.)
      o Children are a poor man's riches. Or, Children are poor men's riches.
      o Children should be seen and not heard.
      o Children suck the mother when they are young and the father when they are old.
      o A chip off the old block (Meaning: Like father, like son.).
      o Cleanliness is next to godliness.
      o A constant guest is never welcome.
     
     
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      o Don't bite the hand that feeds you (Meaning: Do not act in such a way as to leave yourself no alternative or no opportunity to "retreat." Or don't criticize those that you are dependent on -- like your parents or your employers).
      o Don't wash your dirty linen in public.
     
     
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      o East or West? Home is best.
      o An Englishman's home is his castle.
      o Every branch blossoms according to the root from which it sprung.
      o Every family has a skeleton in the cupboard.
      o Every family has at least one black sheep.
      o Every finger has not the same length, nor every son the same disposition.
      o Every mother's child is handsome.
      o Every mother thinks her own gosling a swan.
      o Experience is the mother of wisdom.
     
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      o A false friend and a shadow stay only while the sun shines.
      o A father's a treasure; a brother's a comfort; a friend is both.
      o The female of the species is more deadly than the male.
      o A friend's eye is a good mirror.
      o A friend in need is a friend indeed.
      o A friend is never known till needed.
      o A friend's frown is better than a foe's smile.
      o The friend that can be bought is not worth buying.
      o A friend to all is a friend to none.
      o Friendless in life, friendless in death.
      o Friends are like fiddle strings, they must not be screwed too tight.
     
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      o God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers. [Jewish proverb]
      o A good name is a second inheritance.
      o Great oaks from little acorns grow.
     
     
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      o He that spareth his rod hateth his son. [Old Testament]
      o "His mother should have thrown him away and kept the stork." [Mae West]
      o A house divided cannot stand.
      o Home is where he hangs his hat.
      o Home is where the heart is.
     
     
     
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      o If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were.
      o If you love the children of others, you will love your own even better.
      o Instinct is stronger than upbringing.
      o In times of prosperity friends will be plenty, in times of adversity not one in twenty.
      o It's better to be on your own than with people you don't like.
      o It's easy to become a father, but hard to be one.
      o It takes a village to raise a child.
     
     
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      Keep your friends close, your enemies even closer.
      Keep your friendships in repair.
     
     
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      o Learning is better than house and land.
      o Lend your money and lose your friend.
      o Like breeds like.
      o Like father, like son.
      o Like mother, like daughter.
      o Little friends may prove great friends.
      o The longest mile is the last mile home.
      o Love conquers all.
      o Love is blind.
      o Love makes the world go round.
      o Love sees no faults.
      o Love will find a way.
     
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      o A man's home is his castle.
      o A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest.
      o Marriages are made in heaven.
      o Misfortune tests the sincerity of friends.
      o My house is my castle.
     
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      o No better relation than a prudent and faithful friend.
      o No man tells the truth about himself, only his neighbors do.
     
     
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      o One enemy is too many, and a hundred friends two few.
      o One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters.
     
     
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      o Praise the young and they will blossom.
     
     
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      o Relatives are friends from bitter necessity.
     
     
     
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      o A small family is soon provided for.
      o A son is a son 'till he gets him a wife; a daughter's a daughter all her life.
      o Spare the rod, spoil the child (Meaning: Lack of deserved discipline develops undesired behavior in a child. Sometimes used to justify corporal punishment).
     
     
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      o Tall oaks from little acorns grow.
      o There's a black sheep in every family.
      o There is no distance too great between friends for love gives wings to the heart.
      o There's no place like home.
      o They are scarce of news that speak ill of their mother.
      o A true friend laughs at your stories even when they're not so good, an sympathizes with your troubles evenw hen they're not so bad.
      o Trust is the mother of deceit.
     
     
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      o When children stand quiet, they have done some damage.
      o When good cheer is lacking, our friends will be packing.
      o Who keeps his tongue keeps his friends.
      o A woman's place is in the home.
      o A woman's work is never done.
      o Where there is no trust there is no love.
     
     
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      o You can judge a man by the company he keeps.
      o You can't please everyone.
      o Youth will be served.
     
     
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French speaking countries
Date: Centuries-old
Notes: French Proverbs or Folk Sayings on the Family
     
     
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      o Adversity is the touchstone of friendship.
     
     
     
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      o The child may be rocked too hard.
     
      o Children have more need of models than critics.
     
      o A coal man is master of his own house.
     
     
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      o Dogs don't make cats (English equivalent: Like father, like son.).
     
     
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      o A father is a banker provided by nature.
     
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      o A hedge between keeps friendship green.
     
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      o in English translation: The little fish will grow.
      - Meaning: Boys will be men one day.
      - French original: Petit poisson deviendra grand.
     
     
     
     
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      o in English translation: There's nothing small near oneself.
      - Meaning: There's no place like home.
      - French original: Il n'y a pas de petit chez soi.
     
     
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      o in English translation: Youth must happen.
      - Meaning: Youth must have its fling, Or Boys will be boys.
      - French original: Il faut que jeunesse se passe.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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Spanish speaking countries
Date: Centuries-old
Notes: Spanish Proverbs or Folk Sayings on the Family
     
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      o in English translation: The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
      - Meaning: Like father, like son.
      - Spanish original: De tal palo, tal astilla.
     
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      o A brother's wrath and the wrath of a devil are one and the same.
     
     
     
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      o in English translation: Character and presence from the cradle to the tomb.
      - Spanish original: Genio y figura hasta la sepultura.
     
      o Children's love is like water in a basket.
     
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      o in English translation (literally): He who sleeps with kids wakes up with their piss. Or, Whom sleepest with children, waketh with their piss.
      - Meaning: We have to accept how people are when we deal with them.
      - Spanish original: Quien con minos se acuesta, meado se levanta.
     
     
     
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      o in English translation: If God doesn't give children to you, the devil will give you nephews.
      - Spanish original: Aunque la mona se vista de seda, mona se queda.
     
     
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      o Life without a friend is death without a witness.
     
     
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      o in English translation: A mother-in-law would be bitter even if made of sugar.
      o Spanish original: Suegra ni aun de azucar es buena.
     
     
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      o in English translation: No one should stick his hands between married couples or brothers.
      - Meaning: No one should try to interfere in family matters.
      - Spanish original: Entre casados y hermanos, ninguno meta las manos.
     
     
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      o Take your time in choosing friends, and take even more time in changing them.
     
      o in English translation (literally): Those who go to bed with babies get up damp.
      - English equivalent: Lie down with dogs and you wake up fleas.
      - Spanish original: El que con ninos se acuesta, molido se despierta.
     
     
      o Those who have friends are rich.
     
      o Three daughters and a mother are four devils for a father.
     
      o in English translation: The tiger's son comes out painted. - English equivalent: The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Or, Like father, like son.
      - Spanish original: Hijo de tigre sale pintado.
     
     
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      o in English translation: Who doesn't cry doesn't nurse.
      - Meaning: If you never ask for help probably you will never receive it.
      - Spanish original: Quien no llora, no mama.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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German speaking countries
Date: Centuries-old
Notes: German Proverbs or Folk Sayings on the Family
     
     
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      o in English translation: The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
      - Meaning: Like father, like son.
      - German original: Der apfel fallt nicht weit vom stamm.
     
     
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      o in English translation: Blood is thicker than water.
      - Meaning: Familial ties are stronger than monetary ones.
      - German original: Blut is dicker als wasser.
     
     
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      o in English translation: Do not bite into the hand which feeds you.
      - German original: Beib nicht in die hand, die dich futtert.
     
     
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      o in English translation: The egg wants to be smarter than the hen.
      - German original: Das ei will kluger sein als die henne.
     
     
     
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      o A father maintains ten children better than ten children one father.
      o A fence makes love more keen.
     
     
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      o A good name is a rich inheritance.
     
     
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      o A hug a day keeps the demons at bay.
     
     
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      o The old man saves, his son is a spendthrift.
     
      o One father can better nourish ten children than ten children can nourish one father.
     
     
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      o The parents' death is often the children's good fortune.
     
      o Parents love their children more than do children their parents.
     
     
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      o You can do anything with children if only you play with them.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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The East
Date: Centuries-old
Notes: Eastern Proverb or Folk Saying on the Family (Parenting)
     
      o The rain of tears is necessary for the harvest of learning.
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